Couples guidance — for the present tense

The conversations you've been almost having.

Unagi helps couples have the hard conversations, work through what gets in the way, and learn the everyday skills to grow closer — together, on purpose.

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§ 01 — The idea

u·na·gi /uˈnɑːɡi/ noun. A state of total awareness — of yourself, your partner, and the small, important space between you. The product of attention practiced often, gently, and without flinching.

We built Unagi for couples who are willing to be a little braver with each other. Not for the days everything is easy — for the days it isn't, and for the slow, ordinary work of staying close.

§ 02 — Three things, done well

Talk through it.
Work through it.
Grow through it.

Most couples don't fail because they fight — they drift, because the conversations that matter most are the hardest to start. Unagi gives you a place, a process, and a partner-in-process.

/ 01

Have the hard conversation.

Guided prompts and gentle structure for the topics couples avoid — money, sex, family, the future, the past. Unagi keeps you both heard, and keeps it moving.

  • Prompts
  • Turn-taking
  • Soft starts
/ 02

Resolve, repair, repeat.

Frameworks for working through real conflict — not winning it. From the first uncomfortable feeling to the repair afterwards, Unagi walks the loop with you.

  • Conflict mapping
  • Repair scripts
  • Aftercare
/ 03

Learn the language of love.

Short, beautifully written lessons on the things great couples do quietly: listen, attune, repair, ask. Built with therapists. Built for two people, side by side.

  • Lessons
  • Practices
  • Together-mode
§ 03 — Inside Unagi

Designed to slow you both down.

/ Guided conversations

A quiet third voice in the room.

Unagi opens the conversation, holds the structure, and steps back. Soft starts, mirroring, time-outs — all without anyone losing the thread.

/ The Library

Lessons, in plain language.

Five-minute reads on the everyday work of staying close, written with therapists — not jargon.

/ Daily check-in

Small, often.

Two minutes a day. One question. A week of these is worth a year of "how was your day."

/ Repair scripts

Words when words are hard.

Templates and turns of phrase for the moments after — when you both know something landed wrong and want to come back.

/ Tiny rituals

A practice, not a project.

Streaks, but kinder. Unagi notices what you do together and suggests one small thing — never two.

§ 04 — A typical week

Quiet, unhurried, regular.

/ 01
Sunday — together

You set an intention.

Pick one thing — a topic, a tension, a tenderness — and Unagi shapes the week around it.

/ 02
Mid-week — apart

You each think alone.

Short reflections, just for you. No one sees them but you, until you choose to share.

/ 03
Friday — together

You meet in the middle.

A guided conversation. Twenty minutes. Phones face down. Unagi holds the shape.

/ 04
After — quietly

You learn one thing.

A short lesson tuned to what you just talked about. So next week starts a little wiser.

§ 05 — Voices

From couples who started almost-talking, and now don't.

We tried therapy and we tried pretending. Unagi is the first thing that made the between-times feel like the work.
M
Maya & Jordan
Together 6 yrs
The Friday conversation became the thing we look forward to. We didn't expect that — we expected to survive it.
A
Anya & Tomás
Married 11 yrs
I'm a therapist. I recommend it to clients I won't see for another month. It's the scaffolding in between.
D
Dr. Lena H.
Couples therapist
§ 06 — One thing, two of you

Pay once, for both.

Unagi is for two people. One subscription covers you both — because it has to.

Monthlyflexible

Month to month

£18/mo · for two
  • All guided conversations
  • The full Library
  • Daily check-ins & rituals
  • Cancel anytime, together
Begin together
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Have the conversation. Stay in love.

It's the small, brave habit of two people choosing to keep noticing each other. We made the place for it.